The idea of beauty has gotten out of hand. Beauty in Nature, in particular, seems to
have become about rarity. Those
dwindling areas on our planet with grand mountains or deep forests, vivid
colors or expansive skies. A waterfall
with spray landing on the brilliant green woods to each side. The vista of Yellowstone National Park,
perhaps, or the majestic Alps. Exotic,
colorful birds from the rainforests, or the ever-elusive predators that grow
more scarce by the day.
This grand ideal of beauty has its place for certain, and
brings a wild kind of joy to the heart. It
fulfills us in a way our daily lives can’t compare to, so we worship it the
only way we know how: by flocking to see it at any opportunity and capturing it
on phones in the hope that the pictures we take will continue to inspire that
bottomless depth of joy we experienced while in that place.
It never does, though, does it? It brings back an echo of the memory, and
that can bring a smile to our faces, but it’s never the same again. To those who never went, but only see the
pictures, it brings a sigh of envy at the pale reflection of the beauty we are
sure exists if we could only get there.
That indescribable joy of being in the presence of such rare, apparently
fulfilling, beauty can’t come home with us the way we want, but still we try.
Why? Because we think
that joy is happiness. That if we could
take that joy home with us, then it would make our whole lives more
meaningful. Joy is not happiness,
though. Joy is fleeting, like the rush
of rapids. It’s breathtaking while we go
flying through, but it will end, the waters will calm, and we’ll be left only
with the memory that we felt so alive.
Happiness is far more subtle. Happiness is the undercurrent of the water the
keeps the canoe moving. Sometimes
faster, sometimes slowly, but an ever-present feeling. The problem with grand ideals of beauty is
that they only bring joy, not happiness.
Happiness is everyday.
Happiness is quiet smiles, proud hugs, and daisies. Happiness is the occasional bad day or
misfortune amid a string of laughter.
Happiness is a hobby, a shoulder to cry on, and praise.
If joy is the dozen roses, then happiness is the herb
garden. If joy is a magnificent
rainforest, then happiness is the stand of oaks down the street. If joy is the clear waters of the open
Caribbean sea, then happiness is the rippling patterns on any surface of water.
Humanity is ‘us’, but that’s not really the way to be
happy. Happiness is ‘me’. I love to look up through trees on a clear
morning and see the different shades of green where leaves are in shadow as
opposed to in light. I love to watch
squirrels scamper and chase each other through the branches. I love to stop and listen to the sound of water
burbling through a ditch. I love to look
at the pattern of clouds in the sky and watch it shift, even without applying
shapes to it.
If we all love mountain ranges, then I like plateaus. If we all love grand rivers, then I love
streams winding through suburbia. If we
all love the colors of sunset, then I love the colors of rock in the
Panhandle. If we all love grand towers
of rock, then I love the colors of pebbles on a gravel road.
Beauty can be everyday, too.
Just because I have seen a tree a thousand times doesn’t mean I won’t
appreciate it again. Just because I have
been to beautiful parks and breathtaking mountains doesn’t mean the street I
live on doesn’t thrill me.
Just because I’m beautiful when I dress for a wedding doesn’t
mean my smile isn’t compelling every day.
Just because I’m adorable when I jump up and down doesn’t mean the way I
crinkle my brow when I think isn’t cute.
‘I’ could be anyone.
However, ‘I’ am not ‘us’. I am
always myself, no matter how many others might be similar. I never confuse myself for all of
humanity. I recognize my similarities to
all of us, but don’t credit everyone else for what makes me amazing. I am happy, but I don’t know about us.
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